When It Starts Working
A training about what keeps you from acting
Training session · recording
- 01 Tired and disappointed in myself to the point that I am just surviving on autopilot?
- 02 And I no longer even ask what I want from life?
- 03 I know I need to do something, but I am desperately short of strength even to get out of bed properly?
- 04 I don’t want to live in constant complaint against myself anymore, working only to prove something to someone, or to earn even a scrap of attention?
But the right way to put the question is different: when will I finally start acting?!
The training consists of 9 sessions, 22 hours of video. It is a recording of a live online seminar, with direct conversation, emotional examples and the dynamics of a personal meeting. Each session comes with detailed written notes.
Each session has two parts: the first is an in-depth analysis of a new topic, the second is participants’ questions and a look at their situations. We bring the practice of independent work into everyday life: each week there is a new challenge to set real change in motion.
The training was held in Russian; the recordings and notes are in Russian.
Options and access
Training + consultation — € 240
This package includes access to the recordings and notes, plus one personal 1.5-hour consultation, to be used within 2 months of payment. The consultation is booked through my personal Telegram; it is held in Russian, or in English by prior arrangement.
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You are in the right place if
- 01 when asked about your main desire, you say “just to rest”
- 02 life on low power is killing you, but it has already become your standard
- 03 endless dissatisfaction with yourself is eating you alive, but you consider it normal
- 04 you want to pull yourself together, but bursts of willpower quickly end in an even bigger relapse
- 05 you believe that depending on other people’s opinions is simply impossible to overcome
- 06 and most of all, you dream of finally starting to act!
how the sessions went
Training session · recording
Work between sessions
An early recording
What we will work on
- 01 First, a real view of yourself: what is my picture of the world now? Why am I like this, where does my character come from? Why do I hold on to harmful beliefs? What am I afraid of? Am I ready to sacrifice success for the sake of phantom security?
- 02 True desires: the only thing that creates inspiration, an endless fuel for moving forward.
- 03 Healthy self-esteem: the main foundation of any achievement. Everyone dreams of self-confidence, but it seems an insurmountable barrier. Yet there is a solution, and as always it lies at the level of cause.
- 04 Energy: what is it, really, and where does it come from? How do you restore it and direct it?
- 05 Family relationships: a major obstacle on the way to fulfillment. Parents, children, spouses. What are the main principles? Why is the cause always in me? New prospects for a happy family life.
- 06 Resentment, grievance, self-pity... A systematic change of an outdated way of reacting to the world. We identify and work through false beliefs, and begin to rely on reality.
- 07 To start acting: that is a worthy goal. Whoever acts always gets a result.
There will be a lot of practice
- 01 A technique for working with false beliefs. My synthesis of the most effective methods devised to date for becoming aware of your beliefs and working through them. A rational, conscious approach without any esotericism or hypnosis. 15–30 minutes a day that can replace years of life on autopilot.
- 02 Weekly challenges. For a week we live by a new rule and watch what changes. It is a way of training throughout the day that radically changes your attitude to yourself and to the world.
For example
- 01 managing emotions: one week without voicing anything negative
- 02 digital detox: one week without electronic entertainment
- 03 concentration training: for a week, briefly recall the day’s events before sleep
- 04 and many more
Who this is not for
- The training is not for you if you do not share the position “there is no point in changing others; I am the one who has to change”;
- if you believe that there are situations in life that “cannot be forgiven”;
- if you expect quick results without systematic inner work.
How to take it
The training ran for two months: 9 sessions, one a week. I recommend taking it at the same pace.
After each session there is a challenge: a task to be done every day during the week until the next session. We always aim to do the minimum, and the rest will follow.
Many tasks need to be done in writing. Keeping notes is also useful.
After the training ended, I held club meetings once a week for 8 months. The format was similar: each meeting was devoted to one new topic, then we discussed questions and worked through participants’ situations and problems. The aim of the club is to turn inner change into a lasting way of life. You can get access to the club recordings on the club meetings page.
What people say
For me this training became the point at which my view of how the world works, and of the cause-and-effect links between events in my life, began to change. I already knew some separate things before, but there was no whole picture. It was a discovery, a shock even, that the familiar model of resenting our parents, which my friends and I had all nurtured with such righteous diligence, is wrong, and this is only the beginning of the journey. The training consisted of several topics, with notes for each, which is very convenient. Each session is posted, and you can listen to it and watch it again to consolidate the material. What mattered was that at the end of each session there was a discussion: people either asked questions or told their own stories on the topic. At some point I realized that what had seemed to happen only to me actually happens to many people, almost everyone. You are not alone, as it turned out. Without any lofty phrases, this training helped me push off from the emotional bottom I was at back then and, working through the layers of resentments and grievances step by step, to climb higher and, most importantly, to stay steady in my emotional state.
Translated from Russian
Start acting
Whoever acts always gets a result.
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